Two months ago, I asked a Buddhist nun, why she shaved her head. She said it helps us to let go of attachment.
For last two months, I have thought about this practice. It was not easy to make this decision to shave my head. Although, I knew it would be a great learning experience toward the practice of letting go of attachment.
Having an attachment to your life creates unnecessary suffering.
We have an attachment to the food we eat, the love we share, the gifts we give, the conversations we have with others, the day we wake up to, the children we raise and the kind of car we drive. We have an attachment to whether we live or die, the sun shines, the wind blows, our child gets a part in the school play, how our hair looks and who’s on first and what’s on second.
You can set an intention and you can have a dream. The key is not to be attached.
Life often shows up differently than we envisioned or planned. A practice of letting go of our grip on the reins of our life, and let life unfold as it will, enables us to live without limiting the love we have to share
This last year I chose to focus on having a healthy relationship with God, myself, my children, my family, food, and money.
I began by asking myself if am I acting out of obligation, duty, guilt and or fear and if so, I practiced responding differently.
Two days ago my friend wanted me to agree with her perspective. I perceived her situation as unhealthy. Instead of me agreeing with her out of guilt for fear she would be mad at me, I let her have her feelings and let her know even though I disagreed with her situation, I still valued our friendship.
Last night I specifically dedicated my meditation towards the intention of having healthy relationships.
In my dream, I dreamt I ran over my glasses. I interpreted this to mean I destroyed the crutch of my outdated perception.
That morning I received a text from my friend that was honest and sincere, owning her intention for me to agree with her and requesting her need for space. It was so refreshing.
As I continue to open up to living a more healthy and balanced life, it is being reflected in my relationships.
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