The Key Is To Be Willing

DFF80A32-F020-4073-B0DA-CEC84D140898It doesn’t matter if you are a coach, presenter, parent, sales rep, CEO, manager, nurse, writer, instructor, etc.  How many times have you questioned your ability to guide, lead or assist, and didn’t feel you were in the right frame of mind to do so? You are not perfect, but an important key to the gift you choose to share, even if you don’t feel like you are in the right frame of mind, is your willingness to follow where you ask others to go.  Learn to lean, step into someone else’s shoes, ask for help, be guided, disconnect from what doesn’t support you, become the observer, try something new, and step outside your comfort zone.  The fear of not being perfect gives rise to courage.  The courage to follow when you have been called to lead.

 

Don’t Ridem’ Cowboy

265208E1-A9D0-4631-BBED-6ABF02289C9FWhen my body is feeling good,  I feel I can take on more.  This is where we can get tripped up.  When do you know it’s time to say, “I am good!”  Is it before or after you have pushed yourself too far?  It would be great to have the realization before the body embarks on getting your attention with a more serious slap on the hands.

How many times have you ignored the messages your body was trying to convey until one day the message brought you to your knees?

I will be the first to admit it happened to me yesterday.

I was feeling really good.  This was a healthy sign to stop, and enjoy the space I created.  I was present.  Everything was getting my full attention.  I was feeling good about the work I was doing.  Instead,  I took me feeling good as a sign to take on more and then gradually I noticed I was having a hard time remembering things.  I said to myself, it will get better tomorrow. I just need a little more sleep.  I also threw in,  well you are getting older. This is where the mind likes to trick you into thinking, I got this.  So, I threw more onto my plate.  The body steps in; “she is not listening let’s send her another sign.”  I became tired, dizzy and I was experiencing brain fog.  Thinking a lack of sleep was my problem, I added an hour of sleep.  But one turned into two and two turned into… I never seemed to get enough.  I ignored yet another sign. I went to the Dr. and found my adrenals were shot.  Getting the boost my mind thought I needed, I forged on.  I continued to add more to an already full plate. The next day I tripped while running up a set of stairs and thought I broke my big toe.  I nursed it back to good health.  Still ignoring all the signs, I continued trudging along.

Two days later I was at an event with friends and thought it would be fun to straddle a piece of lawn art and capture a goofy photo.  While dismounting, my flip flop got caught on, who knows what, and down I went.  As my friend was trying to help me up, my foot felt like someone hit it with a sledgehammer.  I stood face to face with my friend, I put my arms around her neck and I said, I am getting sick to my stomach and I am going down and down I went!

I woke up to a crowd of people standing over me and EMT’s on the way.  My blood pressure registered really low.  I was dizzy and seeing spots and I discovered I was dehydrated.

“How many signs do you need, the body says?  I will give you as many as it takes until you listen to me.”

Don’t be fooled by your body’s innate wisdom to strive for balance.

It will eventually get your attention!